Bridesmaid Proposal Ideas and Gifts

Asking your besties to be your bridesmaids is a wonderful opportunity to show them how much you care. In fact, the bridesmaid proposal comes in a very close second to the actual marriage proposal, in our opinion.

That being said, being a bridesmaid can be a lot of work — so spending a little time and effort on a sweet bridesmaid proposal is not only a way fun to get the celebrations going but also a nice gesture to the ladies and gents who are about partake in your big day (which might actually include a fair amount of responsibility).

Whether your besties are near or far, we have a few fun ideas to make them feel extra loved as you pop your special question. For all your giftings needs, we recommend checking out your local Sam’s Club. Their Member’s Mark collection is stocked with celebratory goods, so instead of spending a whole day dropping by boutiques, art stores, flower shops, and jewelers, you can just make one stop, shop, and send. Wouldn’t it be nice if all your wedding tasks were that easy?

Make It an Event

If your future bridesmaids live nearby, plan a special night for your big proposal. For the introverts, plan a game night with a wine and cheese tasting (Sam’s Club does same-day delivery for stress-free entertaining), or take a pottery or flower-arranging class. For the party animals, go for a meal at your favorite restaurant or karaoke. Midway through whatever you have planned, clink your glass, make a toast, and pop your big question.

Give Gifts That Feel Personal

Even if you’re in a big group, make sure to address each bridesmaid individually. Present each one with a card that documents some of your favorite memories with them — and shares how excited you are for them to partake in your special day. You can even give them a personalized gift, whether they’re hot sauce lovers, crafters, home cooks, or Swifties.

Put Together a Care Package

Proposals are the perfect opportunity to put together a loving care package. Focus on wellness with a spa-inspired gift box, packed with face masks, skincare, and beauty tools; or let them unleash their inner kid with a gift box stuffed with their favorite candy. You could also opt for a gorgeous bouquet, perhaps the same color palette as your big day, to get them in the wedding spirit. No matter what you choose, be sure to send a hand-written card. In this digital age, there’s perhaps nothing more thoughtful than that.

Gift a Little Luxury

When your partner pops the question, you get a ring. So when you pop the question, why not present a ring as well? Make “friendship rings” a thing by treating your besties to this gorgeous diamond-accent cocktail ring or one that features an eye-catching cushion-cut blue topaz. If you aren’t sure about their ring size, you can always gift this perfectly stackable bolo bracelet. If jewelry isn’t their thing, gifting luxurious candles or a nice bottle of wine will also make your bridesmaids smile.